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Dear Facebook,

We need to talk.

You and I have been together for a long time. I wrote blog posts, you provided a place to share them. For years that worked. But lately you’ve been treating my posts like spam — my own blog links! Apparently linking to an external site on my Page is now a cardinal sin unless I pay to “boost” it.
And it’s not just Facebook. Threads — another Meta platform — also keeps taking down my blog links.

So this is goodbye… at least for my Facebook Page.
I’m not deleting my personal Profile. I’ll still pop in to see what events are coming up, and to look at photos after the balfolk and festivals. But our Page-posting days are over.

Here’s why:

  • Your algorithm is a slot machine. What used to be “share and be seen” has become “share, pray, and maybe pay.” I’d rather drop coins in an actual jukebox than feed a zuckerbot just so friends can see my work.
  • Talking into a digital void. Posting to my Page now feels like performing in an empty theatre while an usher whispers “boost post?” The real conversations happen by email, on Mastodon, or — imagine — in real life.
  • Privacy, ads, and that creepy feeling. Every login is a reminder that Facebook isn’t free. I’m paying with my data to scroll past ads for things I only muttered near my phone. That’s not the backdrop I want for my writing.
  • The algorithm ate my audience. Remember when following a Page meant seeing its posts? Cute era. Now everything’s at the mercy of an opaque feed.
  • My house, my rules. I built amedee.be to be my own little corner of the web. No arbitrary takedowns, no algorithmic chokehold, no random “spam” labels. Subscribe by RSS or email and you’ll get my posts in the order I publish them — not the order an algorithm thinks you should.
  • Better energy elsewhere. Time spent arm-wrestling Facebook is time I could spend writing, playing the nyckelharpa, or dancing a Swedish polska at a balfolk. All of that beats arguing with a zuckerbot.

From now on, if people actually want to read what I write, they’ll find me at amedee.be, via RSS, email, or Mastodon. No algorithms, no takedowns, no mystery boxes.

So yes, we’ll still bump into each other when I check events or browse photos. But the part where I dutifully feed you my blog posts? That’s over.

With zero boosted posts and one very happy nyckelharpa,
Amedee